經典犀利的愛情感悟，句句深刻睿智，讀懂了收穫很多！
一、當你毫無保留的信任一個人，最終只會有這兩種結果，不是生命中的那個人，就是生命中的一堂課。時間讓人並肩而立，對錯讓自己學會放棄，最後的最後，只是一個人的走進，一個人的錯覺，喪失太多的未來，丟棄太多的珍惜。
When you trust anyone unreservedly, there will only be two results in the end, either the person in your life or a lesson in your life. Time lets people stand side by side, right and wrong let themselves learn to give up, finally, only one person into, one person's illusion, loss of too much future, abandon too much treasure.
二、有些話說與不說，如果都一樣，那不如不說，只會給人感覺，廢話真多，沒有重點。抱怨是世界上最沒用的一件事，有時候抱怨不如省點時間睡覺，真正絕望的人，連抱怨的機會都沒有。
has some words to say and not to say, if they are the same, it would be better not to say, it will only give people the feeling that there is a lot of nonsense, no focus. Complaint is the most useless thing in the world. Sometimes it's better to save time to sleep. People who are really desperate have no chance to complain.
三、我希望將來，能突然遇到多久未遇到的故友，那時候一定又驚喜又意外。縱然傷心，也不要愁眉不展，因為你不知是誰會愛上你的笑容。
I hope that in the future, I will suddenly meet my old friend who I haven't met for a long time. It must be surprising and unexpected at that time. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
四、改變自己會痛苦，但不改變自己會吃苦。一個人的性格和習慣是很難改變的，如果想改變，那肯定是一件很痛苦的事。雖然是這樣，但在很多時候，我們必須要改變自己。一步登天做不到，一步一個腳印能做到；一鳴驚人有困難，一股勁做好一件事還可以。每天進步1%，是小成功到大成功的日積月累！
will suffer if it changes itself, but it will suffer if it does not change itself. A person's personality and habits are very difficult to change, if you want to change, it must be a very painful thing. That's true, but in many cases, we have to change ourselves.
One step at a time, one step at a time, one step at a time, one step at a time when there are surprising difficulties, one thing can be done with all one's strength. Every day, 1% progress is the cumulative accumulation of small successes to big successes!
五、再過一段時間我忽然間發現自己已經沒有那麼在意他了，就算想起，就算不能忘記，可心裡已經沒有了剛開始的糾結，想想也就算了順其自然吧！
After a while, I suddenly found that I did not care so much about him, even if I think of him, even if I can not forget, but my heart has no tangle at the beginning, it is natural to think about it.
六、其實，人都是很賤的，愛你寵你的人你不稀罕，對你冷若冰霜的卻是窮追不捨。最後搞的遍體鱗傷的還是自己；五歲丟了玩具號啕大哭，十歲弄丟了友誼難過許久，十六歲弄丟了最愛的他只是面無表情。不是我們越來越堅強，只是我們學會了怎麼掩飾真實的自己以及真實的感情。
In fact, people are very cheap, you love your spoiled people you are not rare, cold to you is pursuing. At the age of five, he cried loudly when he lost his toy. At the age of ten, he was sad when he lost his friendship for a long time.
At the age of sixteen, he lost his favorite, but his face was expressionless. Not that we are getting stronger and stronger, but that we have learned how to hide our true self and true feelings.
七、我們都是一群多麼可憐的人，喜歡的人得不到，得到的不珍惜，在一起的懷疑，失去的懷念，懷念的想相見，相見的恨晚，終其一生，都滿是遺憾；人生短短几十年，不要給自己留下了什麼遺憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，該愛的時候就去愛，無需壓抑自己，新的一天總有新的活法。
are a group of poor people, like people can not get, get not cherish, together doubts, lost memories, miss meeting, hate meeting late, all his life, are full of regrets; life is only a few decades, do not leave any regrets for themselves, want to laugh, want to cry, love when it is time, do not need to suppress themselves. There will always be new ways to live in the new day.
八、任何事情，總有答案。與其煩惱，不如順其自然。舞臺再大，你不上臺，永遠是個觀眾；平臺再好，你不參與，永遠是局外人；能力再大，你心存雜念策略不對，只能看別人成功。只有真才、實幹、拼搏的人才會有收穫！天上不會掉餡餅，心存僥倖是不能夢想成真！
Anything, there is always an answer. It's better to let nature take its course than to worry about it. No matter how big the stage is, you will always be an audience; no matter how good the platform is, you will always be an outsider if you don't participate in it; no matter how big your ability is, you will have a wrong strategy and only see others succeed.
Only those who are really talented, hard-working and hard-working will have a harvest! There is no pie in the sky, but luck in the heart can't make dreams come true!
九、我們往往能夠記住成長中的寂寞，疼痛，卻記不住童年時那段透明時光中簡單快樂的小幸福。也許就像人說的那樣，人往往能記住痛苦，因為痛苦比快樂更為深刻。
We can often remember the loneliness and pain of growing up, but we can not remember the simple happiness of childhood in that transparent time. Perhaps, as people say, people tend to remember pain, because pain is more profound than happiness.
十、人最大的敵人其實是自己，和別人比不如和自己比。不要拿別人的標準來衡量折磨自己，每個人都有他自己的人生軌跡，努力了就好！遇到別人的不公正的評論，只要是不傷及到你個人的尊嚴，那就讓他說去吧。
Man's greatest enemy is actually himself. He is inferior to others than to himself. Don't torture yourself by other people's standards. Everyone has his own life trajectory. Just try hard! If you encounter unfair comments from others, as long as it does not hurt your personal dignity, let him say so.
十一、 上天拋給你的東西，用自己的雙肩去承受，不管拋多少先扛著，目的是為了讓你的身體更加堅強，雙臂更加有力。這樣的話，有一天它饋贈給你更大禮物的時候，你能接得住。
heaven throws you something, with their own shoulders to bear, no matter how much thrown first carry, the purpose is to make your body stronger, more powerful arms. That way, one day when it gives you a bigger gift, you can take it.
十二、平淡了，執著地蘊積，總有精彩；路盡了，適時地拐彎，天地自寬。別在乎一時的擁有，莫沉陷短暫的離愁，草長花會開，極目方望遠，一切都有規律，無須刻意就好。你可以哭泣，可以心疼，但不能絕望。今天的淚水，會是你明天的成長；今天的傷痕，會是你明天的堅強。
Plain, persistent accumulation, there will always be brilliant; the end of the road, timely turning, the world is wide. Don't care about temporary possession, don't sink into temporary sorrow, long grass flowers will blossom, far-sighted, everything is regular, do not have to deliberately.
You can cry, you can feel pain, but you can't despair. Today's tears will be your growth tomorrow; today's scars will be your strength tomorrow.
十三、日落西山你不陪，東山再起你是誰？同甘共苦你不在，榮華富貴你不配！真正厲害的人，夜深人靜了就把心掏出來自己縫縫補補，完事了再塞回去，睡一覺醒來又是信心百倍。活著就該逢山開路，遇水架橋。
sunset west mountain you do not accompany, east mountain again who are you? If you are not here, you are not worthy of glory and wealth. Really powerful people, in the dead of night, take out their hearts to sew and mend, and then stuff them back, waking up after sleep is a hundred times more confident. To live is to open roads in mountains and build bridges in waters.
十四、 不要去說，生活是不公平的，世界上沒有絕對的公平。我們應該把更多的情感投入到對生活點滴的感悟中，而並非一再的抱怨。我想，海倫。凱勒生活在樂觀，快樂中我們也同樣有著能讓我們感動的生活，重要的是我們要有一顆感謝生活的心。
should not say that life is unfair and there is no absolute fairness in the world. We should devote more emotions to the perception of life, rather than complaining repeatedly. Helen, I think. Keller's life is optimistic and happy. We also have a touching life. What's important is that we have a heart of gratitude for life.
十五、 有時候，我們感覺走到了盡頭，其實只是心走到了盡頭！再深的絕望，都是一個過程，總有結束的時候，迴避始終不是辦法！只有鼓起勇氣昂然向前，或許機遇就在下一秒！
sometimes, we feel that we have reached the end, in fact, only the heart has come to the end! Deep despair, is a process, there is always an end, avoidance is not the way! Only to summon up courage to move forward, maybe the next second!
十六、常常一個人靜靜的呆在一個角落，不想被各種繁雜所驚擾，給心足夠的呼吸。寧靜，凝固了歲月，靜止了時間，品味孤獨帶來的淡淡憂傷。過去只可以是用來回憶，別沉迷在陰影中，那永遠看不清前面的路。
often stays quietly in a corner, do not want to be disturbed by all kinds of complexity, give the heart enough breath. Quiet, solidified years, static time, taste the light sadness brought by loneliness. The past can only be used to recall, don't indulge in the shadow, it can never see the road ahead.
十七、凡事不必苛求，來了就來了；凡事不必計較，過了就過了；遇事不要皺眉，笑了就笑了；結果不要強求，做了就對了；生活就是一種簡單，心靜了就平和了。不要去拒絕忙碌，因為它是一種充實；不要去抱怨挫折，因為它是一種堅強；不要去選擇沉默，因為它是你最大的魅力。看破不說破才是真諦。
Everything need not be demanding, came; everything need not be cared about, passed; do not frown, laugh; results do not demand, do it right; life is a simple, calm mind will be peaceful.
Don't refuse to be busy, because it is a kind of enrichment; don't complain about setbacks, because it is a kind of strong; don't choose silence, because it is your greatest charm. Seeing through, not talking about, is the essence.
十八、被理想所困在現實中，踏在唯物大道上尋找唯心的路。我明知道有些東西不屬於我，可我不願意放棄 ，咬牙堅持著，因為我知道遇到你不容易，錯過了會很可惜。這個世界只能靠自己，沒有誰是真心的給我們依靠。
is trapped by ideals in reality, stepping on the road of materialism to find the way of idealism. I know that some things do not belong to me, but I do not want to give up, grinding my teeth and persevering, because I know it is not easy to meet you, missed will be a pity. The world can only rely on itself, no one is sincere to us to rely on.
十九、別人給得了你安慰，卻永遠不知道你心底的痛。不論有多少的委屈，多麼的難受，記得最終還是靠自己來治癒。這世上根本沒有感同身受，只有冷暖自知。
people give you comfort, but never know the pain in your heart. No matter how many grievances and how painful they are, remember that they are ultimately cured by themselves. There is no empathy in the world, only the cold and warm self-knowledge.
二十、我不是真的傻瓜，只是曾經為你心甘情願。現在，我也學會對你偽裝了，不冷不熱，不鹹不淡。然後聽你輕輕地說，你變了。我不知道，是該笑還是該哭。
I'm not really a fool, but I've been willing for you. Now, I also learned to disguise you, not cold, not hot, not salty. Then listen to you say gently, you have changed. I don't know whether to laugh or cry.
二十一、就讓我們這樣徹底錯過吧，都別帶著恨和遺憾，都別虛偽說祝福，各自天涯就好。感情有時候很諷刺，經得起風雨的打擊，卻經不起生活的平淡無奇。有些人再好，他不屬於你，就沒什麼用。你熬到天亮，他無關痛癢，你等到再晚，他的晚安也不會來。
let us completely miss it, do not bring hate and regret, do not hypocritically say good wishes, their respective horizons. Emotions are sometimes ironic, can withstand the storm, but can not withstand the ordinary life. No matter how good some people are, it's no use if they don't belong to you. If you stay up till dawn, he doesn't itch. If you wait till it's too late, his good night won't come.
二十二、此生不愛，何待來生，好壞都要愛，不管歲月多匆匆，不管生活如何刁難，都要好好去珍惜，活好每一天，開開心心過好每一天。
does not love in this life, no matter how short the time is, no matter how difficult the life is, we should cherish it, live every day well, and live every day happily.
二十三、 最單純的喜歡就是：就算你拒絕了我，我對你也永遠沒有埋怨，但我不會再靠近了，如果你有求於我，我依然會鞠躬盡瘁。從今往後我會把喜歡藏起來，不再招搖過市了，我會努力過得好，希望你也是。
The simplest love is: even if you refuse me, I will never complain about you, but I will not come closer, if you ask me, I will still give my best. From now on, I'll hide my love and stop flaunting. I'll try my best to live well. I hope you will too.
二十四、自己堅定要走下去的路，做成的事，不妨遷就一下，這不叫妥協，而叫做生活。除此之外，對於其它種種，你不甩我，我也不甩你。這就叫性格。
itself is determined to go down the road and accomplish things, may as well be accommodated for a while, this is not called compromise, but called life. Besides, for all other things, you don't dump me, and I don't dump you either. This is called character.
二十五、從今往後我會把喜歡藏起來，我不會再靠近你了，如果你有求我，我仍會鞠躬盡瘁。我會努力過得更好，希望你也是。我還是相信，星星會說話，石頭會開花，穿過夏天的木柵欄和冬天的風雪之後，你終會抵達。
From now on, I will hide my love. I will not come near you anymore. If you ask me, I will still do my best. I will try my best to live better, and I hope you will too. I still believe that the stars can talk, the stones will blossom, and after passing through the wooden fence in summer and the snow in winter, you will finally arrive.
